Relationship Compatibility Numerology Profiles



This reading analyzes the personalities of both subjects to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.

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Anthony Mercier

Jane Vandermeer


About Your Relationship Compatibility Profile

When you are involved in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.

Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this reading is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage in the long run than a few honest remarks in a reading.

You will probably encounter some texts that state: “The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report.” Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.

Anthony and Jane, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Reading and will find it beneficial to your relationship.

Hans Decoz


Life Path


Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.

Anthony, your Life Path is 15/6

You possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others. You have concern for the weak and the downtrodden. You are a healer and a helper to others. You are capable of giving comfort to those in need and will frequently offer a shoulder for others to cry on. Your task in life is to develop the tools necessary to be truly helpful to others, rather than to simply be a sympathetic ear. You must find the balance between help and interference. In the same way, you must learn the delicate art of the counselor who knows when to leave the struggle to others and when to avoid taking away the necessary experiences and lessons of life (for more about your Life Path number, see you Personality Profile)

Jane, your Life Path is 13/4

You are practical, down to earth with strong ideas about right and wrong. You are orderly and organized, systematic and controlled, you are decisive and methodical employing a step by step rational approach to problems solving. Once committed you do not give up easily. You are not one for "get rich quick" schemes. Rather you use hard work and long hours to build a business or career; you seek to establish a solid foundation (for more about your Life Path number, see you Personality Profile)

Your Life Path's Compatibility is 15/6 and 13/4

Anthony and Jane, it is fairly uncommon for these two numbers to “fall in love.” Although they carry common traits (they are both practical and highly responsible) they are rarely interested in one another. The 4 and the 6 are both family-oriented numbers, with a strong sense of community and loyalty, but they tend to compete where you might expect them to be supportive. This is only one area of your chart, so there are other influences to consider that could mitigate this competitive aspect, but it will quite possibly be the hardest to overcome at the onset of your relationship.

However, if support prevails over competition and you do become involved in a romantic relationship, it will usually be a strong, comfortable alliance - the kind of relationship others view as indestructible. If you can accept your differences, you have the potential to be the “perfect couple”.

You share important priorities: your home, children, friends, stability and security. You are both loyal and protective of each other and those you care about. It is in your approach to life and the way you express yourselves that you are quite different. While Jane (the 4) relies on structure, discipline, and control to protect and care for others, Anthony relies on warmth, sacrifice and forgiveness. Jane is much less flexible and may, at times, feel that Anthony is too soft and lenient. Yours is an example of a relationship typically characterized by the disciplinary father and the soft mother, or vice versa.

People around you may have the impression that Jane is rigid and less loving, while Anthony is pure love and gentleness, however this is not an accurate perception. Jane’s love is no less powerful than Anthony’s - it is just less openly expressed. Jane will fight for and sacrifice just about anything to protect Anthony, the children, and anyone else who is part of her life.

Some danger exists if your differing attributes become too magnified. Jane’s need for discipline and structure could become too much for Anthony, suffocating and limiting his ability to express love naturally and without anxiety. Anthony’s willingness to be generous to a fault (and possibly be taken advantage of as a result) might lead Jane to lose respect for him.

Your loving natures can help you weather such conflicts and differences. Stay focused on your love, commitment, and shared values. If you are able to talk openly about your concerns, and respect each other’s individuality, you have the potential to maintain a strong lifelong relationship.



Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.

Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.

Anthony, your Expression Number is 16/7

You are gifted with an analytical mind and an enormous appetite for the answers to life's hidden questions. You have a strong interest in exploring scientific matters, philosophy, and even mysticism. You possess clarity and persistence in your search for truth. You can be a great researcher, educator, and philosopher. You are driven by a desire for knowledge and truth. Your fine mind offers you insight into the veiled mysteries of life. You also possess a considerable amount of perspective (for more about your Expression number, see you Personality Profile)

Jane, your Expression Number is 18/9

You are the humanitarian. You are attracted to a cause or a movement whose purpose is to make a better world. You are idealistic, sometimes to the point of being naive about people or methods. You have great compassion and seek to create a more humane society. You are drawn to those who suffer physically or are at the hand of injustice. You are the righter of wrongs. Your deepest intention is to transform the world. You have a broad view of humanity and are not shackled with prejudice. You should have friends and associates from all walks of life, all colors and religious backgrounds (for more about your Expression number, see you Personality Profile)

Your Expression's Compatibility is 16/7 and 18/9

Anthony and Jane, the 7 and the 9 usually get along well, as long as there isn’t too much interaction. Although they are compatible in some areas, they are generally not that interested in each other’s issues. If you imagine the 7 and 9 as two archetypes forced to spend time together at a social event, you will witness them politely, although superficially, chatting for a few minutes, then running out of things to talk about and lapsing into silence. They do not dislike each other, they just don’t share common interests.

Although the numbers in this part of your chart do not add excitement and energy to your relationship, on the plus side they rarely cause discord. Keep in mind this is only one area of your chart; other numbers and influences will reveal additional aspects that may mitigate this deficiency.

Religion is one area where the 7 and the 9 tend to be incompatible. Jane (the 9), thrives on faith and has the intuitive understanding that things are already in balance, without the need to manipulate them. Anthony, on the other hand, uses logic and reason and does not accept things at face value. Anthony questions everything and (at least as reflected by this part of the chart) “belief” is alien to his intellectual quest for understanding.

Your differing tastes may generate other areas of conflict. Anthony might prefer to live in a large city, while a cozy chalet in the countryside would be paradise for Jane. (Helpful hint: When it comes to choosing colors and furnishings for the home, the 9 is unquestionably better suited to the task.) Every number combination has challenges. Yours will likely revolve around differing interests and your contrasting views on issues that arise.


Heart's Desire


The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.

It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end. You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.

Anthony, your Heart's Desire is 17/8

You want success in its fullest meaning -- wealth, power, and material comforts. You have an enormous ambition. You dream of big projects, great undertakings, and rewards. You are a visionary. You see the horizon and the promise. In general, you also see the methods necessary to fulfill that promise. But you are not especially good with details; you need others to help you deal with the smaller parts of the picture. Your challenge is to make full use of the full spectrum of your abilities, as indicated by your other core numbers (for more about your Heart's Desire number, see you Personality Profile)

Jane, your Heart's Desire is 22/4

You like to live a stable, well organized life. You dislike sudden changes. You prefer orderliness in all things. You have a systematic mind that is reflected in everything you do. You can establish and maintain a routine. You are exacting with details and quite thorough. You like to carefully analyze a problem and then tackle it in a logical and practical approach. You want to be dependable, a rock of strength and an example of discipline for others (for more about your Heart's Desire number, see you Personality Profile)

Your Heart's Desire's Compatibility is 17/8 and 22/4

This is an excellent combination of numbers for romance as well as business. The 4 and the 8 are like the gears of an engine. They connect perfectly and increase one another’s power. By joining forces, they triple or quadruple their output. This is considered the best blend of archetypes for a business partnership. Jane (the 4) delivers the persistence, determination, dependability, and methodical approach required to reach a set goal, while Anthony (the 8) brings the vision and conviction that no dream is unattainable.

Fortunately, a similar synergy exists for romance as well. Although the 4 and 8 are different in many ways, they respect and recognize each other’s value. Together, they create an environment of love, trust, and deep spiritual bonding.

Anthony and Jane, although this aspect of your chart reveals an almost perfect combination, dangers do exist as they do in any combination. At some point, Anthony will likely try something that Jane finds outrageous and doomed to fail. Anthony’s stubborn determination and, at times, authoritarian approach could become a major irritant to Jane.

Jane if (when) that happens, the best approach is simply to disengage. Communicate your ideas, but don’t try too hard to persuade Anthony to give up a plan or a goal he believes in. Alternately, Anthony will sometimes feel Jane is a stick in the mud who doesn’t dare try something new. In this situation, Anthony should recognize this does not signify a lack of courage on Jane’s part, but simply that she prefers not to waste time or take risks on something that does not feel realistic. In these situations, feelings of frustration could overshadow the love and respect that is the foundation of your relationship.

Although rare, it is not unheard of for this combination to survive several major breakups and reconciliations, even divorce and re-marriage. All partnerships must compromise, and this is particularly true for your relationship. Sometimes, Jane, even when you know a project is doomed to fail, it might be worthwhile to support it. And Anthony, your idea may be valid, but when your partner (or others) express serious doubts about it, you may want to consider that they may be right, and examine whether pursuing it is the smart thing to do.



The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature.
It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel more or less comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.

Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.

Anthony, your Personality is 17/8

You appear strong and powerful. You have an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. You have natural authority. Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources. You radiate confidence. People defer to you because they sense your sureness and effectiveness (for more about your Personality number, see you Personality Profile)

Jane, your Personality is 14/5

You are a stimulating person. You brighten social gatherings with your fresh and original ideas. Your conversation tends to be sprinkled with novelty and wit. You have a quick tongue and charisma. You are probably an excellent salesman. There is a lot of nervous energy within you looking for an outlet. You love your freedom and you see this life as an ongoing adventure (for more about your Personality number, see you Personality Profile)

Your Personality's Compatibility is 17/8 and 14/5

Anthony and Jane, this particular aspect of your chart suggests compatibility can only exist if your roles in the relationship are very different and somewhat separate. You both have unique qualities, but they rarely overlap. Perhaps the best way to describe the differences between your numbers is to look at them from a business rather than a romantic perspective.

As business partners, you could do very well - as long as you play different roles. The 5 (Jane) is excellent at promotion and sales. She is dynamic, articulate, thinks fast, and finds solutions easily. Because Jane can see through facades better than most people, it is easy for her to influence others and resolve personality issues.

Anthony, is a visionary, has a strong commanding presence, and has the persistence to overcome obstacles. The eye of the 8 is always intently focused on a future goal - a goal that will be met no matter what. Anthony is the executive, Jane the marketing expert. These are very different qualities that can work well together as long as they recognize neither should try to tell the other how to do their job.

In a romantic relationship between the 5 and the 8, a similar picture emerges. As long as you do not tell your partner how to behave or what to consider a priority, things should be fine.

Other issues that appear in this combination have to do with Anthony’s assertive personality and Jane’s social nature. Jane does not do well being told what to do, and quickly rejects authority. Anthony, may become jealous or envious of Jane’s social life and many friends.

Your key to a successful relationship lies in giving one another space and freedom. Your relationship can be pleasant and long lasting, but you will probably need to be realistic about your expectations, and maintain some distance in your lifestyles and day-to-day routines.

Maturity Number


Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life. Your Maturity numbers are described in detail in your Personality Profiles.

Anthony, your Maturity Number is 4

Systematic and organized, there are few goals out of your reach. You have determination, perseverance and self- discipline. You are perceived as solid as a rock and just as reliable. Your family and friends have faith in you and your ability to care for them. You are practical and realistic. You are also concerned about the welfare of your community. You love nature and the beauty and efficiency that characterize natural law. You have sound judgment and understanding when it comes to estimating the value of a plan or the feasibility of an enterprise. You have good concentration.

You identify with work and are can be very unhappy if you are in a job you do not love. You have a sharp eye for detail. You enjoy the security and steadiness of schedules. You do not like the unexpected.

Your family and home are very important to you. Your love runs deep and is extremely loyal and protective.

Jane, your Maturity Number is 4

Systematic and organized, there are few goals out of your reach. You have determination, perseverance and self- discipline. You are perceived as solid as a rock and just as reliable. Your family and friends have faith in you and your ability to care for them. You are practical and realistic. You are also concerned about the welfare of your community. You love nature and the beauty and efficiency that characterize natural law. You have sound judgment and understanding when it comes to estimating the value of a plan or the feasibility of an enterprise. You have good concentration.

You identify with work and are can be very unhappy if you are in a job you do not love. You have a sharp eye for detail. You enjoy the security and steadiness of schedules. You do not like the unexpected.

Your family and home are very important to you. Your love runs deep and is extremely loyal and protective.

Your Maturity's Compatibility is 4 and 4

Anthony and Jane, you both have a 4 in this part of the chart, indicating a relationship that is either very compatible or extremely stressful. Your lifestyle preferences are likely very similar and you both prefer a certain amount of predictability and routine in your lives. This does not mean you don't enjoy a surprise on occasion, but you generally want your daily routine to be firmly established and uninterrupted.

The success of your relationship relies largely on how compatible your daily routines are. Details are important because you both tend to become irritated when your carefully established schedules are disturbed. It is important that you respect each other’s needs and habits. Even if other numbers in your respective charts point to a certain amount of flexibility and adaptability, you probably have a tendency to create environments that are finely tuned and designed to accommodate your daily physical, mental and spiritual needs.

Unless your habits are compatible, it will be difficult for you to sustain this relationship without making a few adjustments (other than the necessary give-and-take of any relationship). Neither of you should severely limit your needs or desires to accommodate the other as it will only work in the short term; try to arrange a somewhat separate routine instead. It is better to give each other room than to force things that are uncomfortable, creating minor annoyances that can turn into growing sources of resentment.

Anthony and Jane, you are both reliable, dependable people who honor your promises. Being able to count on each other is a powerful ally in your relationship. However, if taken too far, your grounded, practical nature can also create a rigid lifestyle that could lead to frustration and gradual alienation from friends and family members. Lacking tolerance and acceptance of other people's lifestyles can put a stranglehold on your social life and, indirectly, a strain on your relationship. Your keywords for a successful, rewarding relationship are tolerance and flexibility.

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